What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erotic zones can likewise be touched. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver.
Tantric Massage is everything about Loving touch
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. The majority of touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is actually enjoy that touches. The recipient is also present, and gets active and likewise feels (ultimately) from the heart.
Full of attention and existence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch full of attention and existence. Both the provider and the receiver are completely present. Do not think of the other day or tomorrow. Do not look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or getting the massage. A really mindful touch from the heart. Receive likewise really consciously, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are actually out of the concern. Whatever occurs in the minute, completely consciousness, adoringly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or falling asleep is also not meant (still, when that's what you need, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't about a fixed outcome
A tantric massage will always be various. It is not the strategy or the wanted series of massaging that is important, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that what is required.
Tantric massages therefore often take an extremely unexpected course. A tantric massage does not always have to be "great", ending in bliss.
The best ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Constantly with respect to limits
We understood it for a very long time, obviously, however because the #MeToo revelations, some things have shown up in the world of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both provider and receiver always need to be guaranteed. Caring attunement always comes.
Set clear limits ahead of time
Everyone (other than when you are informed) has his limitations. This is human and is also required (check out the post on safeguarding borders. Believe in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limits are. Make sure there is a proper intake, and a decent preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries in advance: about mental boundaries, and also make sure for clearness about physical limits. It is a misconception that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is likewise entirely okay (though hard to deal with oil then). It is also a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received many tantric massages just on the head. In addition, really each cell is sensual, however you will be astonished.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Triggering and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. Of course, constantly with respect for (mutual) borders. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays an essential function once again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of standard/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ creation/ intuitive energy.
Concentrated on the natural ecstatic state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented motion, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Normally leading to a wonderful physical, psychological wellness
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is usually good, in some cases scrumptious. We, therefore, invite you to completely enjoy getting ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of kinds of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and strategies in common. Yet there is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (aimed at enjoyment satisfaction).
* (Body) therapy (intended at healing).
Not Therapy
Relaxation is a fundamental part of tantric massage, however of a completely various order than relaxation massage Why? Well since you are truly extremely energetic during/after the massage. You do not fall asleep (unless you are really tired), you are extremely alert and mindful! A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual fulfillment, we would call great post to read it different. Tantra massage is certainly not a treatment! It's a type of fashion nowadays to see tantra massage as a therapy, however treatment is a profession apart. Tantra massage certainly has recovery effects, however that is not an end in itself.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the post on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stand out:
Tantra massage ideas-- before you start
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer good conditions (physically, but likewise mentally).
* Make clear arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need free, don't press or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every so often ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Offer feedback (satisfaction noises?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) moments.
Demand free.
A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Again, do not try to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no goal.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Do not work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is but there is no pressure for you to perform, this has to do with letting that energy flow.
* Regard borders, set clear boundaries beforehand. Our masseuses are mostly extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, naturally. Know that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being aroused is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can show up.
* Look out to restored freezing moments. Avoid limitations from being crossed once again.
* Step by action ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. satisfaction noises) and offer integration moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate don't rush to the weather ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (sometimes totally empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible healing effect. Even though tantra massage is not the same as recovery, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more caring, you discover what it is like to like yourself.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a great deal of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you may end up being not only happy however even joyous. An ecstatic state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the better you will feel.
In other words, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Complete of attention and existence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic form, without predefined result.
* With respect to (mutual) boundaries.
* Develops a (heart) connection in between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Typically resulting in a terrific physical, mental wellness (of both).